Understanding Embalming: What You Need to Know
At Tong & Peryer Funeral Directors, we understand that planning a farewell can bring up many questions—especially around the care of your loved one. One common question we receive is: What is embalming, and is it necessary?
This blog aims to gently guide you through what embalming involves, why it’s done, and how it can support families during a difficult time.
What Is Embalming?
Embalming is a specialised process that helps preserve and care for the body after death. It involves sanitising and temporarily preserving the body using a respectful, professional method. This can be especially helpful when there is a longer time between the death and the funeral, or if families wish to have a viewing of their loved one.
At its heart, embalming is about dignity. It allows family and friends the opportunity to see the person looking peaceful and well cared for, which can be an important part of saying goodbye.
Why Do Families Choose Embalming?
While embalming is not legally required in New Zealand for most funerals, many families choose it for personal or cultural reasons. Here are some of the most common:
- Time: If there’s a delay before the funeral or burial, embalming helps ensure the body is preserved during that time.
- Viewings and Visitations: Many families find comfort in spending time with their loved one before the funeral. Embalming can help create a more natural appearance for these moments.
- Cultural or Religious Practices: Some communities have traditions around the preparation of the body. Embalming can support or complement these rituals.
- Repatriation: If a loved one needs to be transported across distances (even within New Zealand), embalming is often a requirement.
Is Embalming the Right Choice for You?
Every family, every farewell, and every story is different. Whether or not to embalm is a personal decision, and at Tong & Peryer, we’re here to help you understand your options without pressure.
If you’re unsure, our caring funeral directors can talk you through what’s involved and help you decide what feels right for your circumstances and values.
Our Commitment to Gentle, Professional Care
Embalming at Tong & Peryer is carried out by trained, qualified professionals who treat every person with the utmost respect. We follow industry best practices and uphold strict ethical standards, ensuring your loved one is in safe and compassionate hands.
Embalming FAQs
Do I have to embalm my loved one?
No. In most cases, embalming is optional. We’ll talk you through your choices based on your wishes, cultural practices, and any timing considerations.
How long does embalming preserve the body?
Embalming helps maintain the condition of the body for several days to a few weeks. It’s not permanent preservation but is ideal for viewings, delays, or transport.
Will my loved one look natural?
Yes. Our embalmers aim to present your loved one in a peaceful, respectful way. Makeup or personal items like clothing can also be included at your request.
Is embalming safe for the environment?
While traditional embalming uses chemicals, there are more eco-friendly options emerging. If you’re interested in a greener approach, talk to us about your preferences.
Can I still choose cremation or burial after embalming?
Absolutely. Embalming is compatible with both cremation and burial. It’s simply part of the preparation and doesn’t affect your overall choices.
Have More Questions?
We’re here to help. Please don’t hesitate to us – we’re just a phone call, email, or visit away. Every conversation is met with care, clarity, and respect.
Let’s make sure your farewell is everything it needs to be.
